A new parenting trend—dubbed the “F*** Around and Find Out” (FAFO) parenting style—is gaining attention among families who aren’t finding much luck with gentle parenting. The approach centers on one key idea: actions have consequences. When a child breaks a rule or pushes a boundary, they must face the outcome of their behavior.
Supporters say FAFO parenting helps kids build accountability, independence, and resilience, qualities that many feel younger generations are struggling with as they enter adulthood. Some experts are saying this could better equip kids for the real world.
Clinical psychologist Dr. Jen Hartstein of Hartstein Psychological Services joins NBC News Now to unpack what this parenting trend really means, how it differs from traditional discipline, and why natural consequences can sometimes be the most powerful teachers.
Watch the full interview to learn how FAFO parenting can be applied in healthy, age-appropriate ways—and where it’s important to draw the line.
